Hi I’m 18 and I lost my mother on January 29, 2012. She wasn’t sick or anything, her heart just stopped beating. My father has recently started dating again. I really like the girl but it is just driving me crazy cuz I’m not allowed to talk to anyone about it cuz he doesn’t want people to know. So I have to keep it all bottled up inside. Also, he is very secretive about it and he won’t just tell us if he is going on a date. He will say he’s going to a meeting and then be out till like 1 am. I hate having to keep secrets from my best friend and that’s all my life is right now. I am like shrouded in secrets and I break down and cry on a regular basis and everyone just thinks I’m super weird cuz I can’t tell them why. Also, my dad is always talking about stuff to my sister and telling her stuff and she is always like doing stuff for him (like booking holidays and stuff like that) and he hardly even says 2 words to me.