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Understanding Sibling Survivor Guilt

Posted on November 23, 2008 - by Neil Chethik

By Bob Baugher – When a sibling dies, the surviving brothers and sisters often feel enormous guilt. Here are five common types of guilt with a brief description of each. […]

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After Daughter’s Death, Mother Finds Way Back to God

Posted on November 22, 2008 - by Lisa Buell

By Lisa Buell —

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From Sad to Silly: Christmas Memories Salve Widow’s Pain

Posted on November 20, 2008 - by Michele Neff Hernandez

By Michele Neff Hernandez — There is a song on the radio at this time of year, sung by the Carpenters, called “Merry Christmas, Darling.”  The first Christmas after my […]

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Life Will Never Be the Same — But You Can Get Through This

Posted on November 19, 2008 - by Beverly Chantalle McManus

In response to “How Do I Cope After the Death of My Husband?” Arlene writes: I lost my husband a week ago today, I buried him yesterday. One minute I […]

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Last Conversation With Son is Deep, Loving

Posted on November 19, 2008 - by Yvonne Lancaster

By Yvonne E. Lancaster — Coming home was a tough time of day. It signaled the end of the occupational work day, and the beginning of the personal work evening…preparing […]

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It’s OK to Laugh… and Other Hints for the Holidays

Posted on November 18, 2008 - by Tom Zuba

By Tom Zuba — My 18-month-old daughter Erin died suddenly on July 18, 1990.  Had she lived, we’d be preparing for her 20th birthday this January 2.  Even though I […]

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Having That Difficult Conversation: How to Talk About Uncomfortable Issues

Posted on November 17, 2008 - by Carol O'Dell

What makes a good conversation? Two people who want to talk–and listen. Sometimes, they use words, but a conversation can consist of a glance, a the touch of a hand–it’s about […]

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Pain, the Unwanted Gift

Posted on November 16, 2008 - by Bernie Siegel

By Bernie Siegel, MD — At workshops, I frequently ask people if they would like to be free of all pain, emotional and physical. However, I tell those who sign […]

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Poem: The Promise

Posted on November 15, 2008 - by Genesse Gentry

Your birth brought me star shine, the moon and the sun; my wishes, dreams, gathered round my little one. My life became sacred, full of promise and light wrapped up […]

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Caregivers: There’s Nothing More Important Than a Good Conversation

Posted on November 14, 2008 - by Carol O'Dell

I love the Japanese concept of Wabi-Sabi–the beauty found in imperfection. There’s nothing more imperfect than family life. The fusses, fights, secrets, and misunderstandings add texture to your life–and salt […]

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