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Poem: I Think of You

Posted on May 25, 2008 - by admin

I Think of You
????????? By Catherine Punton Wilson
I think of you and start to cry,
It breaks my heart that you had to die.
Your final days were filled with even greater pain,
Each day was a struggle, each night a torment
But never did you complain.
Only did you say ” Mom, I want my Normal Life Back”
As the […]

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Struggling with Death of Son-in-Law

Posted on May 24, 2008 - by admin

I was wondering if someone out there could help me to understand or help my daughter (Jacquie). My son-in-law Clinton passed away from melanoma cancer in June of 2006. They together had 3 children and were very much in love with each other. Clinton was 36 years old and a very wonderful husband, father and […]

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Forgive for Good: The Four Stages of Forgiveness

Posted on May 21, 2008 - by Fred Luskin

Writer Frederic Luskin believes we can make the choice to forgive — and to take offense in the first place

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Poem: My Third Child is Grief

Posted on May 21, 2008 - by admin

My Third Child Is Grief
??????????? By Sandra Priebe
It?s been three years since my husband suddenly left this earth in the middle of the night.
Jack and I had two children, they are growing and maturing beyond our hopes and dreams.
I?m kept busy guiding and participating in their lives but something else was going on interfering, interrupting […]

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What Are the Death Rattles?

Posted on May 20, 2008 - by Carol O'Dell

Rattles

Mother has what they call the death rattle.
Every time she takes a breath there?s a rattle. Technically it?s congestive heart failure?the fluid around her heart is building up and her body can?t process it, so it?s filling up in her lungs.
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I remember when Mother said she had that little kitten in her chest. […]

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The Gift of Keith – Today is His Birthday

Posted on May 20, 2008 - by Carol Loehr

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?Today we remember Keith on his birthday.? We give thanks for the Gift of Keith.
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Please find time to enjoy the outdoors and say hello to Keith. (Look for dragonflies!)
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Keith’s Mom and Dad
The following is from an article posted on August 16, 2007 which?can be of help and comfort to other suicide survivors.? You might also […]

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Dealing with Grief, Anger and Frustration

Posted on May 20, 2008 - by admin

My son died last December 6 and on Dec 10 the coroner called me and told me that the autopsy had revealed he died of pneumonia, they knew he?d had no symptoms and there were no drugs or alcohol in his system. Almost as an afterthought he told me that there would be toxicology tests […]

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The First 30 Days

Posted on May 19, 2008 - by Ariane de Bonvoisin

When we make a change in our lives — going back to school, starting a business, pursuing a creative path — we also provoke an identity shift. And even though the changes are external, often it’s more of an internal journey that we are being asked to take. To ensure that we don’t get lost […]

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Poem: The Promise of Spring

Posted on May 16, 2008 - by admin

The Promise of Spring
by Lana Golembeski
It is yet another cold blustery day in Minnesota.
As I look out onto the two feet of snow,
I wonder if spring will ever come.
In my eyes, it looks impossible.
How can spring come?
All I can see is snow
and all I can feel is the cold.
And yet, despite all of that,
I know […]

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How to Care-give and Not Kill Yourself in the Process

Posted on May 15, 2008 - by Carol O'Dell

There’s a new kind of caregiver out there.
She (or he) is a savvy caregiver, isn’t a martyr, and doesn’t look defeated (all the time).
She (I use the feminine pronoun to apply to everyone)?has her act together (in some respects) and isn’t going to let her life and her plans be completely derailed–and yet she loves […]

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