Trevilia Hodge Trevilia

Trevilia Hodge is an author and speaker whose work helps grieving people carry their loss forward — not by "moving on," but by making room for joy while honoring the love that remains. She is a Certified Grief Educator trained under David Kessler and the founder of Replace Loss with Love, a grief-through-the-arts organization. She also serves as a NAMI Sharing Hope Ambassador and is certified in Mental Health First Aide and in AI through Andrew Ng. Her specialty is compound loss — grief that stacks, loss on top of loss — and it reaches far beyond the death of loved ones. Divorce. The loss of a job. A friendship that ends. A home, a dream, an identity. Trevilia speaks to this territory from the inside: she has lost 90% of her immediate family, beginning with her mother while she was still in college, and including her father, her husband, and her youngest brother, who asked her to write the book he would never get to read. That book became her memoir, I AM Silence Interrupted: A Griever's Confession — a lifetime of losses, told honestly, with faith, anger, questions, and joy sitting alongside the grief. She writes for the whole grieving family. Her children's books — The Baby Elephant with the Blue Balloon and the Kayla & the Little Trunk Tales series — help children name big feelings and help the adults beside them know what to say. As a master class presenter for Building Esthers and a Rutgers University graduate (Communications major, Women's Studies minor), she brings grief education to churches, conferences, universities, and workplaces. She is currently serving as Miss Plus America Elite 2025–2026 and Ultimate Woman Plus America 2025–2026, and carries her message onto stages as a poet and singer as well as a speaker. Trevilia's work was featured on Tabitha Brown's "Very Good Monday", where — Tabitha could sense the emotion through the illustrations — she song Trevilia's keen sense of advocacy for those experiencing loss. That is her work in one moment: the loss is real, the love is real, and there is still hope in the middle of it. Their absence is real. So is the love that remains.

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