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Faith and Suicide

Posted on August 12, 2008 - by John Pete

Having lost loved ones to suicide, I am deeply saddened and feel abandoned when the Christian faith I look to for support and comfort judge and condemn victims of suicides. While […]

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Poem: Walking With Andrea When Grief Shows Up

Posted on August 12, 2008 - by Fran Dorf

Poet/writer Fran Dorf gives voice to the experience we often have when we see someone who looks like a loved one who has died. It’s a haunting, healing reminder of how grief works.

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When You Doubt Your Faith

Posted on August 11, 2008 - by John Pete

Grief counselor John Pete is editor of Open to Hope’s Faith Blog at www.opentohopefaith.com. Here, he opens the conversation about how a major loss can challenge one’s faith

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How Long (According to the Media) Should Grief Last?

Posted on August 6, 2008 - by Abel Keogh

Psychologist Bob Baugher studied the way the mainstream media handles loss situations. He found a disturbing pattern of reporting that left the impression that people should “heal” and “recover” from loss — and fast.

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Learning to Live Again, One Step at a Time

Posted on August 4, 2008 - by Abel Keogh

When I think back to those dark days following the death of my late wife and daughter, I always return to an early January morning a week before my twenty-seventh […]

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Dr. Gloria Responds to Newsweek Article “Inside the Grieving Brain”

Posted on August 4, 2008 - by admin

Dear Jamie Ryan, Sorry to hear about you loss of Leah. Thanks for pointing out the article by Jerry Adler, Newsweek, July 26, 2008 While we have not had a […]

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What Should I do?

Posted on August 1, 2008 - by Abel Keogh

Mary, Provo, Utah
My son Danny died a year ago of an infection at age three. I am now wondering what to do with all his toys. It is too painful for me to keep them in a room as a memorial for him, yet I know how much he loved them. What should I do?

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Bereaved Family’s Grief Gets Complicated

Posted on July 30, 2008 - by Abel Keogh

Cindy writes:
I have been listening to your radio show for awhile. I download to iPod and listen in the car. Eight years ago, my 3-year-old son was killed when a truck backed over him while he was walking with his sister and childcare provider to the store. As you can imagine, the pain was […]

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For Widows Only — Three Secret Things To Guide You

Posted on July 25, 2008 - by Linda Della-Donna

You’re home now — From the cemetery — Just closed the door on an endless line of well-wishing-filled-with-advice strangers who didn’t know what to say but talked endlessly anyway, and […]

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Poems: In the Mirror and Two Rivers

Posted on July 22, 2008 - by Abel Keogh

Award-winning poet Pamela Papka Sexton touches on the experience of losing her mother (In the Mirror) and her father (Two Rivers). “The mirror doesn’t lie/She is closer than she seems,” Sexton writes of her mother. Of her father: “I look toward Round Top/and know he is there, stitched/in a tuxedo.”

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