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Why I Chose Against a Feeding Tube

Posted on April 15, 2008 - by Carol O'Dell

After all the caregiving, all the hospital stays, doctor visits, baths, pills, and exhaustion, you have one more hurdle–the dying process itself. One of the toughest decisions you’ll have to make is whether or not to insert a feeding tube.
This occurs when you’re at your lowest. Beyond exhausted. Numb.
You call hospice and more decisions need […]

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No Get Up and Go? 5 Caregiving Energy Zappers

Posted on April 11, 2008 - by Carol O'Dell

One of the biggest issues I had as a caregiver was no energy!
I knew I was doing a lot, caring for my mom (She had Parkinson’s and Alzheimer’s and lived?with us) ?and raising three daughters, but I still felt like most of my work was at home, not terribly hard or fast-paced,?so why did […]

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What’s Your Dirty Little Vice? Not So Great Caregiving Coping Skills

Posted on April 9, 2008 - by Carol O'Dell

?So what’s your dirty little caregiving vice??
Everyone has them and caregivers are no exception.
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Caregivers are under enormous amounts of stress, so it’s only natural to turn to something that’s comforting.?The other danger is that caregivers spend an enormous amount of time at home and alone–a breeding ground for vices.
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I’m all for comfort, but […]

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Another Season and the Yellow Butterfly

Posted on April 1, 2008 - by Abel Keogh

April 22, 2004, my life was forever changed. My 14 year old daughter, Olivia Corinne Hoff passed away. It will be four years April 22, 2008.

As I look back now, I don’t even know how I survived. I didn’t think it was possible to live another day, another week, another month and another year, but I have. My grief journey continues to this day, such hard work, every day. For those parents who have lost a child, you all know too well how difficult this journey is. Along the way, I felt as though I were stuck, unable to move forward and, of course, not wanting to. By moving forward, I felt that I would be leaving Olivia behind, accepting life without her. I have moved on but in a different way. I will always have a broken heart, my life is not filled with joy, nor do I look forward to the future. It’s too hard to look beyond today.

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In Memory of Carrie

Posted on March 3, 2008 - by admin

Dear Dr. Gloria and Dr. Heidi, It was a beautiful morning. I started the day off like I usually do on a Saturday. First thing I call my parents, as […]

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Yoga This Morning

Posted on February 6, 2008 - by admin

I am still struggling this morning to shake the reality of the world.  The morning’s unscripted and unexpected comments from innocent bystanders shake my wobbly legs on this chillier February […]

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Learn the Biggest Lesson Grief and Loss Offers

Posted on January 29, 2008 - by admin

The death of a loved one and the grief that follows teach many lessons. Perhaps the most important one is that pain is the sign to take a new road […]

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Finding Hope After the Death of a Child

Posted on January 17, 2008 - by Harriet Hodgson

By Harriet Hodgson I am still in shock at the death of my daughter, the 45-year-old mother of twins.  The shock of her death in a car crash will be […]

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Poem: We Hardly Got To Know You

Posted on January 15, 2008 - by admin

My Great Grand daughter Raimey Elizabeth Cantrell-Rider, born June 21, 2007, died Dec 31, 2007. I wrote this poem for her and her family. We hardly got to know you […]

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Poem: Cenos

Posted on January 8, 2008 - by admin

I will name this thing we are not made for This thing that has happened to some, that we never expected, that we blame ourselves for, more that we should. […]

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