The death of a parent can be one of the most devastating of losses, no matter what your age. Drs. Gloria and Heidi Horsley talk with Dr. Cori Bussolari and Antonio Sausys about this unique loss and how to heal the mind, body and spirit. Dr. Bussolari specializes in grief and loss, especially when it comes to losing your parents. Sausys is a yoga instructor who discovered how physical symptoms pop up during grief, and how yoga/meditation can be a great tool to heal. Dr. Heidi Horsley has known Dr. Bussolari for several years, meeting her during the first day of Dr. Horsley’s doctoral program.

Dr. Bussolari was introduced to parental loss at a young age. Her father was diagnosed with heart disease when she was very young, and he died when she was just 14. Her mother died four years later of cancer, although Dr. Bussolari feels her mother really died of a broken heart. Orphaned as a teenager, Dr. Bussolari was naturally drawn to the grief field when she was in college. She’s spent her entire life studying grief and helping others through the process.

The Importance of Self-Care

As a teen who loses a parent, “Everyone’s telling you what to do,” says Dr. Bussolari. However, all you really want to do is whatever makes you feel better. As a teen or child, this can mean dangerous or self-destructive habits. For Sausys, he found his own strength in yoga. When he lost his mother, who he was very close to, Sausys found out just how strongly physical symptoms can emerge during grief. He was surprised by how little he was feeling after this loss, although the pain would come in the morning. He would “switch it off” which ended up backfiring.

Cori Bussolari

Cori Bussolari

Dr. Cori Bussolari brings a wealth of knowledge and experience to her practice, working extensively with children, adolescents, and families coping with illness, death, or a significant life transition. She is a Licensed Psychologist, Licensed Educational Psychologist, and Credentialed School Psychologist. Dr Bussolari is one of the featured writers for the Open to Hope Foundation Death of a Pet Blog, for which she publishes a column http://thepetlossblog.com Dr. Cori Bussolari appeared on the radio show “Healing the Grieving Heart” with Dr. Heidi & Dr. Gloria Horsley to discuss “Being Orphaned at Nineteen.” To hear her being interviewed on this show, click on the following link: www.voiceamericapd.com/health/010157/horsley061407.mp3

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