My brother was taken from me in 2010. I am finding it difficult coming to terms with never seeing him or hearing his voice again. I try to hide my grief and upset from those around me but when I am on my own I cry as i think about all the times we spent together and what he will miss out on in the years to come. People say that time heals but at the moment I dont believe that anything will make this easier for me. Nothing will ever be the same again for me – any happy occasion will be shadowed by the fact that he cannot share it with me and my parents. I know that life must go on but losing my him will shadow my life forever. he was such a unique character – he made everyone that he met laugh and that makes me even sadder knowing that so many people miss him. I am sorry for all of your losses and I understand your pain and hope that one day we will all be together with our loved ones.
Tags: bereavement, coping with grief, grief, sibling loss
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I miss my brother so much too. He died suddenly last year. Have you found the website myadultsiblinggrief
This may be another avenue to share your pain.
I am so sorry for your loss. I know how painful this is.
I can understand what you are going through I lost my Brother last month,the pain is unberable,I miss him so much too.Sorry for your loss both of you.
I am so very sorry for your lose. I can honestly relate. We lost our baby brother Sept. 30, 2011 on a very bad car wreck while he was working out of state in Oklahoma!!!! He was the only boy out of 4 kids… He was the baby… With 3 big sisters who made sure he never did any thing wrong…so bless you my friend I am at a total loss without my lil brother, my shadow