Writing Helps Bereaved
Whenever you set out to write a book, an important first step is clearly defining your audience. When I started dreaming about Uncrushed, I assumed it would be primarily to help people navigate the loss of a loved one. That was and still is a big part of the reason for my new book.
But something unexpected happened as feedback came in from the Launch Team (35-40 amazing superheroes who read through the book before release day). The comment that surprised me most came from a dear friend who has, thankfully, never lost a super close person, But the stories in Uncrushed spoke clearly to her about her fun-loving mom and dad.
Here’s a bit of the story she told me:
“…as I was reading the first few chapters while on a plane, the tears started flowing. As I was reading, I was thinking about how I wanted to honor my loved ones NOW. I came up with a plan: Why not honor my parents NOW while they are alive to hear all the special memories I have with them, gratitude I have for their sacrifices? … So, my sisters and niece and nephews are planning to present my parents with a video and book this Christmas with photos, memories, and heartfelt thanks for what they’ve done for our family and what they mean to us.”
Feedback Changed My Perspective
Her heartfelt words have lit a sweet fire in my soul to:
- never miss an opportunity to tell my closest people what they mean to me,
- say what I need to say, today, and
- hug my people a little longer.
It’s always the perfect day to write the letter, make the call, or visit the people you love most.
To my closest and favorite humans — husband, kids, in-laws, grandkids — I’m so thankful for every one of you. Thank you for being patient and kind through the writing of this book.
Learn more about Beth at https://bethgmarshall.com
Read more by Beth on Open to Hope: Writing Mother’s Stories Helps Daughter Handle Loss – Open to Hope
