After losing three close family members in five years, I remember feeling overwhelmed as waves of unanticipated emotions would roll in like a storm. How long would this intense sorrow last? Would life ever feel normal again? What if I forget about the people I’m missing? And why do well-intentioned people say crazy things when they’re trying to be helpful?

I searched volumes of grief-related books, envisioning a clear, concise manual to lead me down the well-lit path to healing. As you might imagine, there was no such book available. Nothing on the market was touching the deep sadness in my heart. One morning, I finally found a comforting place to go with my pain. In the spiral notebook I used as a journal, I began to write through my grief.

You may be thinking right now: I’m not a writer. I don’t like to write. Writing feels like school.

Hold on. Please don’t stop reading.

In Grief Survivor you’ll find real-life tips for:

  • knowing what you might expect
  • navigating holidays and other special days
  • taking care of yourself first, so you’ll be able to help others
  • knowing when to call for help
  • gaining confidence that your loved one will not be forgotten.

Writing when life hurts is one of the healthiest ways to begin to heal. Whether you write on every page or simply read and reflect, I invite you to take the first step toward hope and healing with Grief Survivor.

Excerpted from Grief Survivor, by Beth Marshall.

Learn more about Beth at https://bethgmarshall.com

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Beth Marshall

Beth Marshall is a freelance journalist, conference speaker, and author of Uncrushed: real steps for healing your grief and restoring your joy; and Grief Survivor. She has also created a grief and loss masterclass for Nothing is Wasted Ministries, as well as several grief/trauma-related plans for YouVersion (the Bible app). After losing several close family members Marshall began to journal through the difficult days of grief. As she wrote about her loved ones and started to connect with other people, she realized a joy-filled life after loss really is possible!

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