At the annual ADEC (Association of Death Education and Counseling), I spoke with Dr. David E. Balk about grief and adolescents. David is the author of a book called Dealing With Dying, Death, and Grief During Adolescence.
In the video below, David discusses social media and the internet and how it has changed the face of grief for adolescents.
Here are some key takeaways from the video:
- So many adolescents and youth stay in touch through social media, and David says he’s not sure how many people have come to terms with the fact that this has entirely changed how adolescents think and interact.
- David believes it’s both a positive and negative thing that youth are spending so much time on social media.
- One of the dangers, because of this age group, is that youth target other youth that they see as vulnerable. If you’re a youth and you post on Facebook that someone close to you has died, other people may use that as a means to get after you. So youth have to be careful about things like that.
- One of the positive things about the Internet and social media is that there is so much access to information. Social media prevents youth from having to go though a loss entirely on their own.
- Adolescents and young adults are “scared to death” to be around someone who’s grieving. In order to keep acquaintances and friends while coping with a loss, most youth feel the need to pretend they’re OK and camouflage their feelings. Social media can be an outlet for youth to engage with a select group of people who are going through the same thing they are.
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