In this video, Jesse Roberts, the author of Katie the Ladybug: Explaining Emotions of Grief to a Child, speaks of his own experiences and encourages those who are helping grieving children to be honest, concrete, and sensitive when discussing the topic of death.
Losing both of my parents before the age of 16 inspired me to immerse myself in the field of death and dying in hopes that I may be able to help others who are experiencing grief after the loss of a parent. I did not want these experiences to be wasted, and through helping others have been able to find meaning in those experiences.
I have always had an incredible support system of people who have encouraged and supported me throughout my seasons of grief. They have continually poured into me, listened to me, and walked with me on my journey. They have given me hope in so many ways, and I honestly don’t know where I would be without them.
The most important advice that I can give to a grieving individual is to allow yourself to feel your emotions as they come – Do not suppress them. Emotions need to be acknowledged when they arise, otherwise they come out in more unhealthy ways in the future.
Jesse Roberts is currently completing his final year in the M.A./Ed.S. in Mental Health Counseling program at Gardner-Webb University in North Carolina, which is his home state. After losing both of his parents before the age of 16, Jesse was inspired to use his experiences to help others who are grieving. He wrote a children’s book called Katie the Ladybug: Explaining Emotions of Grief to a Child as a project during his senior year of high school, and it was published in 2012. Jesse has worked as a community bereavement counselor with Hospice, and currently works with an organ procurement organization, LifeShare Of The Carolinas, where he works with the families of potential organ donors in various hospitals across the western part of the state.
His hope for any child who’s lost someone important in their life: Jeremiah 29:11 – “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”