Drs. Gloria Horsley and Heidi Horsley talked with one another during the 2015 Association for Death Education and Counseling conference. This mother and daughter are leaders of The Open to Hope Foundation, and their personal experience has driven them to dedicate their life to grief counseling. Gloria lost her son, who was also Heidi’s brother, in an automobile accident. Scott died in 1983 at just 17 years old, along with his cousin. Gloria notes that she was a therapist at that time, although she didn’t specialize in grief therapy. “During that process of grieving together,” Gloria says she and Heidi grew closer and committed themselves to changing their “grief trajectory.”

In 1983, Heidi was still a teenager and losing Scott prompted her to pursue a career in grief therapy. Simultaneously, it moved Gloria into a niche of her therapy field. “For years, I was struggling and didn’t know what my purpose was in the world,” says Heidi. Finally, she decided to attend school for grief therapy, and that’s where she found her calling. Gloria notes that, “When we lost Scott, our family was in disarray. To see our family come back together after all these years is an amazing story of hope.” The entire family is involved, with Gloria’s youngest daughter managing the Open to Hope website.

Being of Service

“Moving my grief outward and into service” has been Heidi’s greatest help, especially as she serves as the Executive Director of the foundation. Phil, Gloria’s husband, is also a big part of the process. He serves as the treasurer and on the Foundation’s board. Many people ask how the family can work so closely together. “We’re very different,” says Heidi. She relies on honesty and the ability to disagree as the key success. Open to Hope started as a radio show, and it’s grown as a minimized group thanks to the message: “Be careful what you wish for,” as said by Heidi with a laugh.


Dr. Gloria and Dr. Heidi Horsley

Dr. Gloria and Dr. Heidi Horsley

Dr. Gloria Horsley and Dr. Heidi Horsley are a mother/daughter team and internationally recognized grief experts. They are the founders of The Open to Hope Foundation and the hosts of The Open to Hope Show. In addition, Dr. Gloria is a board member for The Compassionate Friends and Dr. Heidi is an adjunct professor at Columbia University and has a private practice in manhattan. Their message is that others have made it through the grief journey and so can you, if you do not yet have hope lean on theirs.

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