I Have Lost Three Children

I have lost 3 children. I had been seeing a Psychotherapist and he told me that it was like 911. That he could not help me. The Psychiatrist that worked along with the Psychotherapist dropped me saying he was unable to help me, which effected me terribly. I felt betrayed. I am in bed all of the time, have no interest in anything. My husband is suffering terribly, and holding it inside. I am not in any out bursts to upset him, but he must see that I am very bad. Is there anyone that can help me?
Prior: I am a professional artist, that can NOT get back into my studio. All I hear from the family is to resume my painting, and I can?t.



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  • Tisha says:

    Hello I hope this finds you doing better today. I myself have lost a child I lost my only child to at birth. Although I was not able to enjoy my child and his life my life is completely gone. All I ever wanted in life was a family. When I got pregnat with Korey I could not belive that it was actually happen. Then when he died Most of me died right along with him. I am sooooo angry and I do not know how to get past it. It has gotten so bad that my whole family says that I am angry all the time. I really do not mean to be like that but I do not know how to move on with my life. Maybe you and I can help each other cope.

  • Lori says:

    The only help I can offer you is that I am a bereaved mother also. All I have is what comes from my heart. My son, Jeffery was killed in a car accident 4years ago. He had just grauduated from high school. He was riding with a friend and his friend was driving to fast and hit a tree they were both killed instantly. My only comfort comes from talking to other bereaved parents. They are the only people who understand our kind of pain.

  • Lori says:

    you can email me at [email protected] if youd like to talk. I am so sorry for your heartache. Life can be so painful. Do you have any surviving children.

  • Pat says:

    I am so very sorry to read of the horrendous loss you have suffered. I lost my cherished daughter on July 11, 2007. I, too, am an artist, and understand that going into the studio to paint just doesn’t seem to matter anymore. Hardly anything does. Perhaps your medical doctor can refer you toa grief counselor who CAN help. My heart goes out to you.

  • Lori says:

    We have a bereaved parent support group once a month and I look forward to being with other parents like myself. It is so painful when a new person comes to the group. We all know what kind of pain they are enduring. Email is easier for me sometimes because alot of us dont have the energy to go out and be around other people. Looking forward to hearing from you.

  • I am so sorry for your loss. I cannot even imagine your pain. My only child was killed July 22, 2006. She was my best friend also. Living without her is so very difficult. Just know we are all here for you. Keeping you in my prayers that you find peace and strength. Hugs! Love, lana