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Remembering Super Bowl Sundays With Dad

I am a huge sports nut.  I love just about every sport, and growing up I tried everything except hockey. So I was ready to watch the recent Super Bowl between the Indianapolis Colts and the New Orleans Saints. I remember that the Super Bowl was one game that my dad would sit and watch.  He wouldn’t [...]

Dad’s Legacy: A Lesson About Giving

One of the great things that my dad taught me is that it is always better to give than receive, that to give unconditionally brings true happiness in life.That lesson has stuck with me. I volunteer for a charity here in Metro Detroit called Yatooma’s Foundation for the Kids (http://www.forthekidsfoundation.org). It assists families who have lost [...]

A Moment of Perspective…

Sometimes, it’s hard to put things into perspective becuase we are always so consumed about what we are feeling and how it affects us in our lives, that we don’t take the time to think that maybe somebody has it just a little bit harder than you. I was in a charity golf outing this [...]

The things you miss…

One of my patients in the clinic was telling me about how his shoulder problem was preventing him for throwing with his son who is a pitcher on his baseball team.  In fact that was his number one goal to throw a baseball again and throw it well with his son.  It was exciting to [...]

Wedding bells…

I am getting married in October and frankly the myriad of details that goes into planning a wedding are unbelievable.  I have been in 11 weddings and I thought I knew everything, but as I am finding out, you can always learn something new in every situation.  It really is an exciting time.  I could [...]

The little things…

Sometimes it is those little things in life that can just drive you crazy when you are going through them but oddly enough those seem to be the things that you miss the most when that special loved one is not around anymore.  I could give you dozens of things that used to drive me [...]

The Bucket List…

Believe it or not last night was the first time I actually watched the movie The Bucket List with Jack Nicholson and Morgan Freeman.  What a great movie.  Two total strangers, one deadly killer that they shared between them and a lifetime worth of memories rolled up into a 3-6 month time frame.  I could [...]

Another birthday…

My birthday was yesterday and I love my birthday.  I think it is the one day of the year where you should be able to celebrate the way you want to and call your own shots all day with no questions or suggestions from anybody.  It is a day to celebrate life, to be thankful [...]

A culinary genius…

I used to laugh when my Dad used to make stuff for us in the kitchen.  I can tell you it just was not something he was very good at.  Thank God, most of us are fortunate to have two parents if for no other reason than not to starve.  My mom thankfully made sure [...]

Losing Your Role Model

I love watching Tiger Woods play golf.  Now, I can’t stand watching golf particularly, because to me it’s boring.  I think I would rather watch paint dry on a wall, but when Tiger is playing I tune in.  I like watching excellence in motion.  The very way he carries himself both on and off the [...]

A final farewell…

As most of the world viewed Michael Jackson’s funeral on TV, it was truly a larger than life experience for a larger than life entertainer.  It is really strange when a celebrity dies in this country.  I think people finally understand, “Hey we really all are human.  Death is going to happen to each one [...]

A beautiful sunrise…

My Dad was always one to get up in the morning and when I say morning, we are talking the 5 AM-5:15AM variety.  His routine usually consisted of working at the kitchen table, shaving, and sometimes sitting and admiring the dawn of a new day.  I never understood why sitting there seemed so peaceful until [...]

The Race

As everyone knows by now, Father’s Day is the toughest day of the year for me.   It is a constant reminder of how you really are different from someone else.   Ever since my Dad died, my new tradition has been to run in the local Father’s Day 5k in my hometown which some [...]

Father’s Day Eve…

Ok, so obviously this isn’t a real holiday, but it is to me.   This made up holiday, is the day before my toughest day of the year, Father’s Day.   It is the one day of the year where I feel really different from everybody else, and only a few people in my life [...]

Take me out to the ball game…

The famous song that signals that summer is here.  One of my favorite things to do in the summer is to go to a baseball game.   I love going on a summer day or night and just being outside, smelling the fresh cut grass, seeing fans with their baseball gloves, and smelling that wonderful [...]

For the kids…

Yesterday I attended a charity function for a wonderful charity here in the Metro Detroit area benefitting children who have lost a parent. Yatooma’s Foundation for the kids provides financial assistance, groceries, counseling, coaching to family members, and just about anything else to children in need after a parent has died. Their annual Champions for [...]

The Never-Ending Project

My Dad’s never ending project no matter what house we were living in was to clean the garage.  It did not matter how many times he cleaned it, the garage still looked like it needed to be clean.  Tools would be moved around, toys would be put away, lawn bags would be piled up but [...]

Be Humble

As I was working out the other day, I happened to look up at one of the many TV’s they have on at the gym and saw FOX news on.   Neil Cavuto who has a popular program on that channel was talking but of course they did not have the sound on.   All [...]

The Everyday Hero

Today as we celebrate Memorial Day, honoring all of our brave men and women who put their lives on the line every day so we can continue to enjoy our daily freedoms, we remember that these people are everyday people who live in your neighborhood.   These are the people you see at the police [...]

We’ll Vote On It

As I was writing this post I was going to go in a completely different direction and then something changed.   I burped.   Yep, that’s right I burped.   Now readers out there are wondering how in the hell can you be influenced in writing about one of nature’s gaseous effects? The reason is [...]

Talking to the Wall

Growing up my Dad used to get so frustrated when he would have to repeat things over and over again to me.   It is not that I didn’t understand them, it was probably more like I didn’t think it was important enough at the time to remember.   Clean your room, don’t fight with [...]

So the grass isn’t perfect…

As spring time approaches, the sun is coming out, the rain clouds visit occassionally and the grass grows and grows.   This is a signal in the Midwest that yes, finally we can get rid of the 6 months of winter everyone complains about.   A favorite pastime of every kid was that first time [...]

Does anybody want to play catch?

When I was growing up one of my favorites things to do was to play catch.   It didn’t matter what the ball was.   It could have been a football, baseball, or basketball, I didn’t care.   I could play catch or shoot baskets for hours on end and not get the least bit [...]

Spring cleaning…

Hopefully that summer is right around the corner (yeah right) it was hailing here in Michigan today, it is the time for year for everyone to take inventory and do the dreaded spring cleaning.   Mostly, spring cleaning consists of getting rid of past stuff to make room for future stuff.   Basically in the [...]

Little Lauren…

Kids have such a great way of putting things into the proper perspective in life.   They really make you realize that the happy times are really happy and should be celebrated and that the sad times aren’t all that bad and they will get better.   Once a month, I schedule a visit with [...]